恋爱和学习(Love and Learning)

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themajorityofcollegeteachers,especiallyoldteachers,arguethatstudentsshouldgiveuploveandconcentrateonlearning.theysaythatcampusloveistime-and-energy-consumingandtearsstudentsawayfromtheirmaintask.ifastudenteverfallsinlove,he/shewillundoubtedlyneglecthis/herstudiesandgraduallylagbehindhis/herclassmates.afewteachers,therefore,suggestthattheuniversityauthoritiesrestorethetraditionalregulationagainstloveduringstudentsschoolyears.

onthecontrary,studentsholdthatitisnaturalforyoungpeopletofallinloveonthecampusbecausetheymeeteverydayandtheireverydaymeetingproducesromanticpassiontowardseachother.theyinsistthattheeampusisnotthegardenofedenandloveisnot,theforbiddentree.theytakeforexamplesomeoftheirfriendswho,fallinginlove,arestudyingharderandhavemade'greaterprogresstopleasetheirboy/girlfriends.

inmyopinion,bothviewsarelop-sided.ifastuadentdoesnotgivehimself/herselfawayinlovebuttakesitasadrive,loveproducespositiveeffect.butifhe/sheindulgeshimself/herselftoodeeplyinlove,thenhe/shewillbeadevoteloverbutafrustratedlearner.