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Howtodealwiththesetbacks

We’veallhitthatbumpintheroad,thesetback,theproblem.Whatsetspeopleapartishowtheyreacttothatbump.Areyouoospinoutofcontrol,indespair?Ordoyougrabaholdofthatwheelandsteeryourselfstraight?Whetherit’saschoolassignment,aworkproject,oravolunteermission,weallencounterthingsthatslowusdown.Youjusthavetokeepinmindthatasetbackisonlytemporaryandgreaterthingslayahead.

Itiseasyjusttoquit,giveupandignorethehardworkyouhaveputintosomething.ButatSparkPeople,webelieveinthe"twostepsforward,onestepback"philosophy.Sowhatifsomethingbadhappens?Keepmovingforward,developingwhatyouhave.You’vealreadybuiltasolidfoundationonwhichyoucanrely.Hardworkcan’tbeoverlooked.

Sohowcanyoureactwhensomethingdoesn’tturnoutasyou’veexpected?First,beobjective.Stepbackandlookatthesituation.Takeresponsibilitywhereitisdue,butdon’tplaceblameonothers.Isyoursetbackreallythatsignificant,orwillitjustrequirealittleextraexertiononyourpart?etotermswithitandthenstartplanningyournextmove.Askforhelp.Don’tbeafraidorashamedtodothis.Oftentimes,peoplearemorethanwillingtogiveyousupportandadvice,maybeevenafterbeinginasimilarsituation.Youdon’thavetobeperfect;afterall,nobodyelseis.

Bounceback.Reevaluatethegoalsyoushouldhavesetforyourselfatthebeginningandretoolthemasnecessary.Goalsshouldberealisticandspecific,butthatdoesn’tmeantheycan’tbeflexibleandareallowedforminorimpediments.Insteadoflookingatyourprojectasadisasterorfailure,viewitwithsuess.Concentrateonhowgreatitwillfeelafteritisfinallydone,afteryouhaveputyourallintoit.Insteadoffocusingonapossibleunsatisfactoryperformanceonesingletime,takeamomenttositbackandrewardyourselfforallthatyouhaveaomplished.

Aboveall,don’tlivewithregrets.Approachlifewithperseveranceanddedicationtothethingsthatmattermosttoyou.Suessisnevereasy.Itremainsuptoyouwhetheryouwillgiveup,orfightthroughthetoughbattlestoearnwhateveritisyouwant.

AfragmentofapoembyRalphWaldoEmersonistelling:

"FinisheachdayAndbedonewithit.

Youhavedonewhatyoucould.Someblundersandabsurditieshavecreptin.Fetthemassoonasyoucan."

Moveonwithyourlife.Keepreachingforyourgoalsandyouwillachievethem.Oneminorsetbackisnothingifyoureallywantsomethingandarewillingtoworkforit.