择友(Choosing Friends)

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择友(choosingfriends)

everybodyhashisfriends.somepeopleliketochoosefriendswhoaredifferentfromthemselveswhileotherspreferthosewhoaresimilartothemselves.eachofthechoiceshasitsadvantages.

whenpeoplehavefriendssimilartothemselves，theyandtheirfriendscanchat，play，anddothingstogetherharmoniously.theresultisthattheyallfeelrelaxedandcantrulyenjoyeachother'spany.

whenaguyhasfriendsdifferentfromhimself，theadvantagehehasisthathecanbenefitfromthecontactswithdifferentpeople.hisfriendsmaybedifferentfromhimincharacter，education，oupation，socialstatus，orpoliticalandreligiousbeliefs.fromthosefriends，hecanlearnalotofthingsthathehasneverexperiencedhimselfandhecanalsoenjoybeingwiththerawhentheyknoweachotherwell.

paringtheadvantagesofbothcases，ithinkthatitwouldbebetterformetohavebothkindsoffriends……somewhoaresimilartomeandsomewhoaredifferentfromme.inthisway，icanhavethebestofbothworlds.forinstance，wheniwanttorelaxorwheniamtootiredtobecarefulaboutmyspeechandmanner，icanstaywiththosefriendswhoarelikeme.but，whenifeellikeit，itisalsopossibleformetostaywiththosewhoaredifferentfrommeandlearnsomethingnew.

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