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AvoidMisunderstanding

"Whydotheykeepmisunderstandingme?"Weoftenhearpeopleplain.Misunderstandingseemstobeoneofthemostdisturbingissuesininterpersonalrelationships.Weoftenseehowitunderminestheharmoniousrelationshipsbetweenpeople.

Severalfactorscontributetomisunderstanding.First,peoplewithdifferentpersonalandculturalbackgroundsmayhavediverseperspectivesininterpretingonebehavior.Second,thelanguageweuseasavehicleofconveyingthoughtcanbeambiguous,andvariouswaysofdecoding(解码)  words  mayresultinbarriersinmunication.Third,misunderstandingoursbecauseofalackofmutualtrust.Ifyouhaveprejudice(偏见)againstsomeone,whateverhesaysmaysoundiiiintentionedtoyou.

Havinggonesofarintheexplorationofthecausesofmisunderstanding,wecaneasilyarriveatthewaystoavoidthem.Firstly,weshouldbebroadmindedandbetolerantofthedifferencesamongpeople.Secondly,weshouldbeaurateandappropriateinourhandleoflanguage,avoidingmisleadingwords.Thirdly,weshouldbeconstructiveandpatientindealingwithpeople.Ifwetryhardenough,therewillbemoreunderstandingandlessmisunderstandinginthisworld.

范文分析  本篇文章在表达方面的一个突出特点就是形容词的运用。如disturbing(令人烦恼的)、interpersonal(人际间的)、harmonious(和谐融洽的)、ambiguous(模棱两可的)、ill—intentioned(恶意的)、broad—minded(开通的)、tolerant(宽容的)、misleading(误导的)、aurate(准确的)、appropriate(得休的)、constructive(建设性的)等。这些形容词在表情达意方面，起到了准确高效的作用。另外，关联词及从句的大量合理运用，使表达凝练，意思上联系紧密，句子结构紧凑。